Minecraft for Parents: 7 tips to help you get involved

Minecraft isn’t just another stupid game your kids are obsessing over. It’s actually a huge source of creativity, and it’s the perfect opportunity to get to know your kids a little bit better. How, and why? Let me explain.

Minecraft has been defined in many different ways: a video game, virtual LEGO, a world builder, a mining simulator, and a graphic adventure. It’s true, Minecraft contains elements of all of these things, but it’s also about the freedom to create, build and explore.

Like many videos games, however, as a parent you can be both perplexed and concerned the first time you see Minecraft. All of a sudden, your children are spending hours glued to the screen, engaged in the infinite universe of the game. While some may chalk it up to just kids being kids, playing video games, others may choose not to ask about it for fear that you won’t understand the answer.

On the contrary, there’s little to fear: Minecraft can actually be a powerful educational tool, a playing field in which both you and your children can learn and communicate. Here’s what you need to know if you want to participate in the Minecraft phenomenon with your kids.

Observe and question, but don’t judge

It may be difficult to figure out what’s going on at first. Everything is moving very fast. You’ll see things that seem absurd or that you don’t understand, like catching pigs with a fishing rod or plugging up holes in the water. Your child may suddenly start flying over mountains or set fire to a stone. All this is normal. You’ve just landed in a different world.

Sheep, dynamite and a tree on fire. It makes no sense, but there’s no cause for concern.

Look closely at everything that happens. After a while, you’ll have gotten familiar with the essential elements of Minecraft, like the fact that monsters come out at night, and objects are constructed from basic ingredients and recipes. Ask your child what they’re building every now and again, along with what it’s for, but don’t judge: this isn’t your adventure just yet.

There are plenty of blocks and items in the game, but it takes time to know them all.

Also, remember that Minecraft has two different editions: Standard, and Pocket. The standard edition is for PCs and consoles, while Minecraft Pocket Edition is the smartphone and tablet version (it has a few limitations, like smaller worlds and a lack of certain blocks, but in essence, it’s the same game).

Learn everything you can about the game

Nothing in Minecraft is explained beforehand; there are no maps or instructions to tell you what to do. As a result, finding and sharing information online is an essential part of the game. You’ll often see your kids spending lots of time on YouTube channels and in the Minecraft wiki to find info. I recommend you do the same.

The official Minecraft wiki can answer almost any question you have.

Both YouTube and Twitch.tv have channels where you can find in-game videos with gamers commenting on various aspects of the game and sharing their adventures using specific terms that your kids will most likely already be using.

The YouTube channels dedicated to Minecraft have millions of viewers.

Why not try and watch a few of these videos with your kids? If you’re worried about strong language (an inevitable result in some videos), just turn down the volume. Take the time to find channels that you like and feel are appropriate. You can also hide comments or watch videos in TV mode.

Help your child plan and build

Minecraft is more complex than it seems. As is the case with LEGO, for example, children can get easily frustrated if they don’t realize their vision quickly enough. Your presence could actually help your kids enjoy the game more if they’re stuck with a “creative block”.

It’s good to let your kids build and explore freely, but every now and then, you should set them challenges or goals to work towards, and then help them out if they need it. You could ask them to reconstruct something you’ve seen while traveling, or maybe something from a movie. Minecraft’s creative mode is ideal for this, as there is no block limit and you can’t die.

Planning can be as fun as building (source).

By helping them plan their constuctions, not only will you be setting a good example, you’ll also have the chance to share gaming experiences with your children. Teamwork can also make it easier to disconnect: by setting goals and objectives, you can decide when it’s time to take a break.

Install the most interesting Minecraft mods

Minecraft is a game that can be expanded by mods (non-official accessories). Thanks to mods, you’re able to improve the graphics, add towns with characters who speak, and add new objects and creatures. Other mods can help facilitate the construction of complex structures and speed up repetitive tasks.

Installing mods for Minecraft is safe and easy, as long as you only use mods from reliable sources. Using Minecraft Forge is probably the easiest way to install mods, an accessory that makes it much easier to modify the game. Simply download a zip file and copy it to the Minecraft mods folder when using it.

With Minecraft Forge, installing mods is very simple (see our tutorial).

The world of mods is fascinating but complex, and it requires a bit of technical skill. As there is no official support for mods in Minecraft, they can sometimes cause the game to stop working properly, especially if it gets updated. Make sure you back up the worlds created by your children, as mentioned in this tutorial.

How to get to the folder where the worlds are saved. Make regular backups!

Create a world / kingdom only for your family

An important part of the Minecraft experience is to play with other people. There are thousands of servers around the world that allow anyone to connect, but these are worlds with all types of players of which you have no control. Some encounters could be abusive or unpleasant, something you and your children should be aware of.

Luckily, you can enjoy the game with your family– without any intrusions– by using your own server, a Minecraft world for only you and your kids. This means that you’ll have complete control over the universe: you can choose when to turn it on and off, how it will look, and what monsters it’ll have. You can even decide when it will rain. Check here to see how one’s created.

Some servers are spectacular, like this one that replicates Game of Thrones. (source)

There’s also an even easier way to have your own permanent world: Minecraft Realms. For $10 a month, you can create private worlds that friends and family can connect to, without the need for a server at home and all the technical problems they often generate.

Remember that building isn’t everything

Minecraft can be played like LEGO, but construction is only one aspect of the game. Your kids also have the possibility to explore new lands, kill monsters, and carry out many different exploits, such as training horses or discovering treasures.

Minecraft has plenty of caves and dungeons: it might be best to explore them together.

If you want to create lasting memories of these adventures, you can record them through Twitch.tv or with a local video recorder like Fraps. Two useful tips for recording your video-adventures: change the characters’ skins so that they look different, and change the camera view using the F5 key (from first to third person).

The resulting video diary can be uploaded to YouTube, much like the Minecraft Dad series, in which Paul Soares plays Minecraft with his son (he’s already added over 100 videos in the series).

Minecraft Dad posts videos of games with his son on YouTube (source)

Complement Minecraft with real life

Bec Oakley, mother of two Minecraft players, gives some excellent advice on her blog: try and get your kids to use their skills in Minecraft to help them with activities in the real world. Applying what your kids have learned in Minecraft to the real world can be very useful, and it actually helps prevent your kids from to staying glued to the screen for too many hours.

The possibilities are endless: Minecraft cakes, paper dolls, and LEGO constructions are just a few creative ideas. You can even find dozens of ideas for crafts related to the Minecraft universe on Pinterest.

Navigate through a real forest, one of the ideas suggested by the blogger MineMum

Embrace the craze

Not all video games are bad, and Minecraft could just be the perfect opportunity for you to get in on the action with your kids. The key is to accompany them not just in Minecraft, but also in the transition between Minecraft and the real world, really helping them apply what they’ve learned.

More about Minecraft:

Minecraft Pocket Edition: 9 basic tips for the survival mode

The best mods for Minecraft

The easiest way to install Minecraft mods

Article translated from Spanish via Softonic ES.

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